Andrea once said she had zero interest in basketball. But that hasn’t stopped her from being a rock for UConn behind the scenes. She and Dan Hurley have been married for over 25 years, and while he’s all about the game, she’s carved out her own role. As UConn wrapped up the regular season with an 81-50 beatdown over Seton Hall, Dan was locked in on March Madness. But off the court? Andrea stole the show.
It all started when the Huskies had their worst Big East loss under Dan, a brutal 69-68 meltdown at Prudential Center. Sloppy mistakes in regulation and overtime cost them, knocking them down in the rankings and likely setting them up as a No. 8 or 9 seed for the NCAA tourney. That loss meant they had to beat Seton Hall on Saturday to lock in a No. 2 or 3 seed for the Big East tournament—and they did. Through it all, Andrea’s carefree attitude stood out next to Dan’s all-out intensity. She couldn’t care less about screens. He obsesses over every detail. That balance has kept their family steady, even in the craziest moments of Dan’s career.
In a behind-the-scenes clip from 60 Minutes, she kept it real. When asked about a screen, she confidently said, “I don’t even know where the screen is.” Then, in the most relatable way possible, she doubled down: “I know it’s supposed to block a player so someone can score, but I don’t know why you can get in trouble for it sometimes… AND I DON’T WANT TO KNOW, so no one try to explain it!” Classic Andrea move! Then came the line that had everyone laughing: “Our lives are very different… You play with chickens and make soap. You wouldn’t understand my life, so don’t try.”
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Andrea’s viral moment wasn’t just funny—it also showed their dynamic relationship as a couple. To put things in perspective, she’s been around basketball forever. First, Dan’s dad, Bob Sirico, was a longtime coach. And she met Dan when he played at Seton Hall. Their sons, Danny and Andrew, followed him, with Andrew playing for UConn. But Andrea never tried to be a basketball strategist. She doesn’t need to be. After all, she’s built a life beyond basketball and proudly calls herself a lady. And honestly, Dan wouldn’t be where he is without her.
She played a big role in Dan’s career decisions—like choosing UConn over a bigger paycheck. She is real, no filter. The kind of person who bakes birthday treats for UConn’s players and plays along with Dan’s weird superstitions. Bottom line? She’s the glue. Through every win, loss, and superstition, she’s there, making sure Dan—and the whole UConn crew—always have her in their corner.
Andrea Hurley: The Backbone of Dan Hurley’s UConn Journey
Being married to a college basketball coach isn’t easy, but Andrea Hurley handles it really well. As the wife of UConn head coach, she deals with the unpredictable schedule, late-night film sessions, and emotional highs and lows. She’s not just watching from the sidelines—she’s in it, supporting him through every win and loss.
As the saying goes, losses hit the hardest. Andrea sees it up close. “After a loss? It’s worse,” she told Bensinger. “I just know the work that’s coming that night. Do I go to bed? Do I go downstairs? He comes in, and he’s very quiet.” Dan carries the weight of every game. And she stays by his side, always.
This season has been a grind with UConn defending a national title while adjusting to roster changes. And Andrea, having experienced the effects firsthand, said, “It’s exhausting, watching him go through it. The stress, the doubt—it never stops. You just want to take it away, but you can’t.” However, she stays steady, reminding Dan that one bad stretch doesn’t define a season.

Her role isn’t just about Dan. She’s a huge presence for the players, stepping in as a second mom. Above all, she understands the pressure they’re under and makes sure they feel supported. Wins or losses, she’s there. Her presence lifts spirits, and makes sure players feel valued—not just as athletes, but as people.
Resilience, dedication, and staying true to yourself. Andrea lives by these values and shares them with everyone around her. Whether supporting Dan, raising their sons, or running her podcast, one thing is clear: she’s more than just a coach’s wife. She’s the heart of UConn basketball.
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